The Power of Letting Go
- Qolett Marie
- Oct 30, 2024
- 3 min read
We all have moments when we hold onto something a little longer than we should—whether it’s a job, a relationship, a habit, or even an idea of what our lives should look like. Often, the reason for holding on is fear: fear of the unknown, fear of loss, or fear of regret. It’s a common part of the human experience, but it can keep us from truly embracing the life we’re meant to lead.

That’s why today’s journal prompt is all about reflecting on the things you’ve held onto out of fear, and what you would say to your past self now that you have the wisdom of hindsight.
Why Reflecting on Past Attachments is Important
Understanding why we cling to things that don’t align with us can provide insight into our values, beliefs, and the way we perceive our self-worth. Often, we hold on because of limiting beliefs—maybe it’s the idea that “better” won’t come along, or the fear that by releasing something familiar, we’re left vulnerable to the unknown.
Yet, letting go is not a sign of failure; it’s an act of courage and self-respect. When we release the old, we’re clearing space for the aligned opportunities we truly desire. By reflecting on past experiences, we gain clarity on why we held on and how it impacted us, empowering us to make different choices in the future.
The Journal Prompt:
“Consider a time when you held onto something out of fear of the unknown. What kept you from letting it go? Looking back, what advice would you give your past self, knowing what you know now about the importance of alignment?”
Let this prompt guide you to a place of compassion for your past self, who might have been fearful or uncertain but was doing the best they could. Reflect on the lessons you’ve learned and honor the courage it takes to step into the unknown. This process will help you recognize and release any limiting beliefs you may still be holding onto, allowing you to align more fully with your present and future.
How to Use This Prompt for Greater Alignment
• Explore Your Attachment: Dive into what exactly made you hold on. Was it a sense of comfort, security, or something else? Getting to the root of these attachments can help you identify similar patterns in the future.
• Acknowledge Your Growth: Embrace the wisdom you’ve gained from the experience. What would your current self tell your past self? By acknowledging your growth, you’re empowering yourself to step confidently into new, aligned experiences.
• Set an Intention for Future Decisions: Now that you understand what held you back in the past, set an intention to make choices based on alignment moving forward. This clarity will guide you to recognize what’s right for you and confidently release what isn’t.
Embracing the Future with Confidence
As we embark on journeys of self-growth, knowing that we have the power to release and move forward with purpose can be incredibly freeing. Each experience we let go of opens up a new chapter for growth, joy, and deeper alignment with who we are meant to be.
So, as you journal today, remind yourself that you have the wisdom and strength to create a life in alignment with your true self.
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